Have a heart-to-heart conversation with God, and share with him the things about yourself that you are most displeased with and ashamed of.
John 8:31-32 KJV
Jesus told His followers that if they continued in His word, they would know the truth and the truth would make them free. The liberating truth He was referring to is the fact that God has created each one of us, and only He can limit, define or judge you. And though He has all power, God has chosen to love you.